Graduation: the excitement, the change, the new
We are headed into the exciting and scary time of year for students... graduation! After years of hard work and preparations, the 2024 class is finishing up their final days in High School. Many new steps may be taken with this. From attending a University, to trade school, to even taking a gap year, there are large changes and adjustments approaching for these young adults. While these are exciting times for many, they may also come with feelings of anxiousness and worries about what the new chapter will entail. Let’s look at some ways in which we can better support those making these changes to assist with better setting them up for success.
One of the most important things to do with these upcoming emotions many teens are feeling is validation. Often times, I see teenagers feeling alone due to the fears that they have with the upcoming changes when in reality they are not alone. Not only are their feelings valid but they are also extremely normal. Many will be uprooting and changing their routine, their location, and peers who they interact with. Validating their emotions can show that they are seen and that they can communicate with you directly on their needs.
Another helpful step to take is creating a plan. Moving to a near area is scary for anyone but especially children who are off on their own for the first time. Taking steps to create a plan can assist with setting the teen up for success. This can include touring the town, finding clubs to partake in, or different activities one would enjoy. Giving your young adult a chance to see the excitement in their new area can assist with making them feeling more comfortable as they transition.
Lastly, provide support, grace, and understanding. This will be a scary and new time for many people, parents included. Taking time to provide patience and understanding will allow everyone know that they are capable, they are cared for, and they are loved. This is a very exciting time for all. Let’s work to utilize these steps to assist with enjoying and celebrating all of the accomplishments to come!
